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After a Good Man Cheats: How to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy With Your Wife, by Caroline Madden PhD
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Geared specifically to help the good men who have strayed outside of their marriage covenant, Madden as a coach provides detailed play by play on how they can walk successfully through the rebuilding process.  Arnita Fields, Author & Christian Marriage CounselorThe book has very helpful tools including assessments, quizzes, checklists, and scripts. This book is a must read for any man who is trying to figure out how to save his marriage and family after he has made the mistake of infidelity.Stephanie Weiland Knarr, Ph.D, LCMFT, Author of Dr. Stephanie's Relationship Repair for Couples...breaks it down to a science with real life scenarios of the before and after an affair. There is a  Q & A chapter that dedicated to addressing how you should respond and what emotions and questions to expect once your affair has been discovered, PRICELESS...   Tony Hawkins, Host of Married Men Don't Talk, Blog Talk Radio"With compassion and years of experience, author Caroline Madden, MFT walks the reader through what questions to ask yourself, insight to what your spouse may be feeling, what to do/say and what not to do/say when addressing the issue and steps to take to mend your marriage and ensure it doesn't happen again.  After a Good Man Cheats is an invaluable resource for both the cheater and the one who was cheated on."Corbin Lewars, Author of Losing Him, Gaining You: Divorce as Opportunity
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From the Author
These tools are not a get-out-of-jail free card for multiple affairs. However, this book will help a sincerely repentant man who is committed to not cheating again. Right now you are saying and doing things that you think will help but are probably hurting your chances. This guide is meant to align your heart and good intentions with the most effective words and actions. Â I can't promise you that your wife will take you back. However, I can give you the best chance and the best resources to make that possible. I'll also let you know why and when I think you should consider individual therapy or marriage/pastoral counseling.It is my hope that these resources will help you achieve your goal: to win back your wife and to restore your marriage so that it is stronger and more fulfilling than ever.Â
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Product details
Paperback: 118 pages
Publisher: Train of Thought Press (December 12, 2014)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 099077287X
ISBN-13: 978-0990772873
Product Dimensions:
6 x 0.3 x 9 inches
Shipping Weight: 8.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
Average Customer Review:
4.0 out of 5 stars
34 customer reviews
Amazon Best Sellers Rank:
#519,081 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
I am so happy I found this book, I only wish I had purchased it as soon as I found out about my husband's adultery. I bought it for my husband to read (I read it first). While I have not decided if it is the best thing for us to stay married after his betrayal, this book definitely made things a little easier.There are some things I didn't agree with, I prefer full disclosure and this book has some suggestions about keeping certain things from the wife. I just feel the weakness and dishonesty of the cheater was part of the problem, so don't keep doing it. However, some things are said that mirrored how I was feeling and that really helped me to feel normal and it helped my husband understand part of what I was going through.I really saw a change in the way he approached my outbursts and constant tears and it has really helped to see him make an effort. He was thankful for the book and it felt it was a helpful guide.
This book has some very good advice. Unfortunately, that good advice is surrounded by absolutely horrible advice and will lead to divorce, the one thing she is saying she is trying to help you avoid.The first area is mentioned a couple of times in other reviews - she suggest deleting all 'evidence' of the affair so that the wife can't find it. However, she goes on to admit several pages later that the wife has probably seen a lot of the evidence and that betrayed women are excellent at finding information. Why set the man up for failure in that way? By telling him to delete the evidence and try to deceive his wife, she is having the man go into the situation lying. How can you encourage the man to be "transparent" and to be "honest", but also try to purge any evidence of the affair? That makes no sense.The other thing she encourages is to not admit to the affair if you don't think your wife knows. What? She literally tells the man if he doesn't believe the wife knows about the affair, mention that he wants to go to marriage counseling, but don't tell the wife you had an affair and keep it a secret - even in counseling. What? Again, you are encouraging this "good man" to keep a serious secret.She also does not insist the man keeping this secret from his spouse be tested for STDs. Really? Not only are you having him keep a secret, you are allowing him to potentially infect his wife and risk her own health because she doesn't know that she should get tested. The author admits most affairs happen at work or are with friends or family of the wife - you really think it is okay to keep that a secret from the wife? The wife has no right to know her "best girlfriend" has been sleeping with her husband? She doesn't have a right to know her husband has been sleeping with his co-worker and they are still going to be working together?Like I said, she has some great advice - especially when it comes to meeting the needs of the wife who knows about the affair. However, her surrounding advice is so troubling and so disrespectful to the faithful spouse that I cannot recommend this book. Her advice completely contradicts itself throughout the book. For instance, on the one hand she admits that many women who find out their husband had an affair at least feel relief that they aren't 'crazy' since they felt something was going on, but then she tells men NOT to tell their wife unless they are caught/confronted. What? You admit that most women feel something is going on and even think they are crazy for suspecting their 'good man' is cheating, but you want to allow the man to continue to gaslight his wife by pretending he didn't cheat when he did? How is that not cruel to the faithful spouse?Her bad advice easily takes a 'good man' and makes him an even bigger liar and deceiver. How devastating will it be to that spouse when they find out they went through marriage counseling, gave it their all, only to find out their husband lied the entire time and kept an affair a secret. That ISN'T a good man, that is a man that is being cruel to his spouse.So, I would only recommend this book for "good men" that are honest with their spouse and can ignore that bad advice included.
First of all, I love that this book is written by a woman. Many books on restoring a marriage after infidelity or sexual sin are written by men, teaching men how to essentially trick their wives into forgiving them, or at the least not divorcing them. They tend towards "you screwed up, be on your best behavior for a while and she will get off your back eventually".Madden doesn't take that approach at all.Instead, Madden talks men through the realities of the devastation that they have poured onto their wives. I need to be clear, this book is written for men that have had actual affairs (emotional or physical). This isn't a book for wives, but for husbands to better understand what they have done and how it has impacted their wives. She addresses real life conversations that need to be had, questions you should ask, as well as tangible real life steps to help your wife feel more secure in your marriage. She also gives clear and calming phrases to use to help lead the conversations in a positive manner.
Some Key Elements Were Overlooked, But Overall a Good Foundation: I think the book should have included dynamics like alcohol or substance dependence as a factor, given that they reduce a person's inhibitions and judgement. I also think that the presence of any mental health disorder can play a role in the cheating behaviors. When "Thinking Errors" are present, the cheater needs to see that list outlined in the book, and identify, "Oh, that's what I'm doing. That's how I'm justifying my affair". I also think you give a mixed message of be transparent and completely open, keeping no secrets, but oh, delete all your text messages, emails, Facebook messages, etc. That promotes secrecy, which is a core element of adultery.
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